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We all feel sad, worried, scared, or suspicious at times — and that’s just a part of life. However, when these feelings start to get in the way of our daily lives, over an extended period of time, that’s when there might be more going on.
Mental illness can affect anyone regardless of their culture, age, gender, educational background, or financial situation. Even those who you’ve always known to be cheerful and untroubled, may be fighting a battle that you cannot see.
The state of our mental health can affect our feelings, our thoughts, our physical well-being, and our actions. Although the early signs of mental illness are not always visible, you may observe some changes in those struggling with their mental health.
If someone is talking about ending their life, perhaps even describing ways they could do it, this may be a medical emergency.
If you are worried that the person you are talking to might be thinking of suicide, you can call 9-8-8: Suicide Crisis Helpline any time for free, confidential support. If the person’s life is in danger, please call 9-1-1 or go with them to your nearest emergency department. Do not leave them alone and try to stay calm until help arrives.
Has the person said they are experiencing any of the following thoughts or feelings?
Has the person said they are experiencing any of the following thoughts or feelings?
Have you witnessed any of the following behaviour?
Have they talked about or showed the following signs:
Start by telling your friend what you have noticed or what is concerning you.
"I have noticed you don’t seem to be sleeping much, and you’re skipping meals. Is everything okay?"
37% of Ontario students report experiencing an elevated level of stress or pressure in their lives.
x “Just relax.”
x “You’ll get over it.”
x “It’s all in your head.”
x “Have you tried spending more time outside?”
These comments could come across as judgmental or dismissive, despite your intent. Instead, focus on how you can show your friend that you are someone they can trust.
Find an appropriate and private time to approach your colleague. Tell them what you’ve noticed and why you’re concerned.
"Has something happened recently that you need support with? I’m here to listen if you need to talk."
52% of Canadians report feeling burned out because of their jobs in the past year.
x “I know exactly how you feel.”
x “Maybe you just need a day off.”
x “We’ve all got a heavy workload.”
Don’t assume you know what the problem is, or that you experience workplace stress the same way your co-worker does. Out of character behaviour may signify early symptoms of mental illness or other kinds of stress.
Ask how they are doing casually to create a safe space for conversation. Be specific about what you’ve noticed and what you’re concerned about, without being accusatory or judgmental.
"You’ve seemed down a lot lately. Is there anything that’s bothering you that you want to talk about?"
70% of mental health problems begin during childhood or adolescence.
x “Snap out of it.”
x “You don’t even know what real stress is, you’ll see when you’re older.”
x “I went through the same thing when I was your age, you just have to get over it.”
Statements like this may make them feel judged for feeling the way they do, or for not being able to make themselves feel better. They may not be well-received by a child or teen who is trying to establish their own identity, and may begin to foster feelings of resentment or mistrust towards you.
If the person confirms that their experience might be mental health related, reassure them that you want to support them through their struggle. Additionally, you can ask if there is a doctor, counsellor, or community/ spiritual advisor that they could confide in and seek help from as well.
This guide is designed to help people start conversations about mental health with people in their lives, such as friends, colleagues, neighbours or family members.
DownloadIf someone is talking about ending their life, perhaps even describing ways they could do it, this may be a medical emergency. 9-8-8, the national suicide crisis helpline for Canadians. Now available in English and French, 24/7, 365 days a year, the crisis line is open to any person living in Canada who is thinking about suicide, in emotional distress or worried about someone they know.
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