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A Tribute to a Woman's Trademark
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Fifteen days ago, my mother-in-law, Rita Mae Rohde, died. I want to thank everybody who offered his or her thoughts and prayers. Now if you follow me on social media, or if you have heard me speak live, then you know I talk a lot about people who have made a difference. Rita was one of those people.
She was born in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin on April 16, 1937. Rita possessed an indomitable spirit that couldn't be conquered without her consent. After a long, courageous fight that amazed her family, friends and doctors, the time had finally come to be reunited with her late beloved husband, Bill. Her undying love, persistent humor, firm faith and her inalienable independence will continue to be admired by all who knew her. Time spent at Friday lunch gatherings with her group of friends referred to as "The Splashers" brought her great joy. Rita had a passion for animals, playing games and reading books. Visitors to her home were always greeted with a warm smile and laughter, and her often-quirky antics lightened the hearts of those around her.
Decide to Do More
Unlike Rita, all too many of us have replaced the "I will do more" mentality with "I've fallen, and I can't get up." Why? Often, the attention we receive by not getting up and then complaining about it seems more attractive than persevering with no one noticing.
Rita refused to live her life on the sidelines. She was never worried about the risk of having someone criticize or ridicule her intentions. Life is too short for misgivings. If you get a chance to do more, take it, regardless of whether or not you'll be recognized. If it changes your life, let it. Doing more isn't necessarily easy, but as Rita demonstrated, it's well worth the effort!
When you resolve to do more, a surprising and energizing result materializes. You find that life's detours are less common and the challenges you encounter are easier to cope with. Resourcefulness is more than imagination or originality. It is an eagerness to participate regardless of your conditions and, in the process, help other people navigate their twists and opportunities.
Create Your Trademark
When you become the architect of your life, you remain free. My mother-in-law, Rita Rohde, is the symbol of autonomy and independence. Before her death, she had 51 surgeries, including six hip replacements. She never felt sorry for herself or like she was caught in a trap. She was a proper example to every person who complains and plays the role of the victim. Rita not only embraced change, but she also changed the perceptions of people around her. Her positive outlook is a testimony to everyone who knew her. She enriched the lives of her friends, neighbors and family by seeing beyond her circumstances. Her attitude inspired hope in the face of adversity and order during disarray. She never made excuses. She just smiled and conveyed calmness in spite of her physical trials.
Your smile is your logo, your personality is your business card, and how others feel after spending time with you is your trademark. While Coca-Cola has a secret recipe and a worldwide brand that has never been replicated, Rita Mae Rohde created a trademark that is available to any person willing to question their motives and take a hard look at how they make other people feel. My mother-in-law left a lasting impression on those she met on her journey. Thank you, Rita, for making a difference. We will miss you!
Best,
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