1. āThe love of family and the
admiration of friends is much
more important than wealth
and privilege.ā ā Charles Kuralt
Familyc o n n e c t i o n
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Safety tips for
exercising in hot
weather
Submitted by Chief of Naval Personnel
Public Affairs
Exercising outside during the height of summer
heat can be hot and sticky, not to mention
potentially dangerous. If you have been consis-
tently exercising outside throughout the year,
then the transition should be easier when hot
weather arrives.
However, if you have not been spending time
outdoors, make sure you build up your tolerance
to the heat. Start with a 10-minute workout and
add five to 10 minutes each week. Try to avoid
direct sunlight and work out in the shade. It is also
best to work out early in the morning before the
day heats up or after the sun has gone down and
it is cooler.
Another good tip is to work out with a partner so
that you can monitor each other for heat-related
injuries, such as heat stroke. It is also recom-
mended to work out a few days indoors or in a
pool to provide your body a break from exercising
in the heat.
Increase your water intake during the summer and
while exercising in the heat.
Recommendations for water intake:
ā¢ Two hours prior to a workout, drink 16-24 fluid
ounces.
ā¢ For every 30 minutes or as needed, drink 9-16
fluid ounces.
ā¢ If you are exercising outside for more than an
hour, a sports drink with 30-60g carbohydrates
is helpful.
ā¢ After a workout, drink 16-24 fluid ounces for
each pound lost during exercise.
If you get dizzy or lightheaded, stop working out
immediately, move into the shade or into an air-
conditioned room and drink plenty of water. Take
care of yourself when exercising in the heat!
Take precautions
in extreme heat
Submitted by Amber Kerr
CNIC Family Emergency Response
Program Analyst
For many, the month
of August represents
the end of summer and
the beginning of a new
school year. Families are
making their last visits to the beach and people
are reveling in the long daylight hours.
August, however, is also a month that can have
notoriously high temperatures. If you live an area
that is affected by extreme heat, it is important for
you to take the appropriate steps to protect your-
self and your family from potential heat-related
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Contents
Healthy parenting for child safety
Preparing for back-to-school without stress
Perpetrators of sexual assault: myths vs. facts
New coalition forms to serve transitioning
vetsāfinancial needs
Working together improves family strength
Syracuse University to host workshop
for active-duty military Aug. 15-16
NIAM draws attention to immunization
in August
New Stars and Stripes Transition Guides
available
Employment and Transition Corner
2. Relocation Tip
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Relocation Assistance
Program Pinterest
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service members and
families to use! Pinter-
est website for RAP:
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com/military1source/
relocation-assistance-progam.
New Spouse Orientation
New Spouse
Orientation is
offered as an
on-demand
course designed
to support new
Navy spouses. It
provides information on benefits, support
services, military culture and resources to
help spouses adapt to the military lifestyle.
Family On-Demand Courses
Get a New Home
Military Families in Transition now lives at
www.militaryfamiliesintransition.com
New Spouse Orientation is now
www.newspouseorientation.com
Be sure to update your favorites.
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Here are a few things that you can do to prepare:
ā¢ Be informed and know heat terminology.
ā¢ Stay updated on local weather so you can plan outside activities accordingly.
ā¢ Stay in air-conditioned buildings as much as possible. If you do not have air-conditioning at
home, make sure you have something to circulate air to help prevent stagnant conditions.
ā¢ Avoid direct sunlight.
ā¢ Wear loose-fitting, lightweight and light-colored clothing.
ā¢ Drink more water than usual. Do not wait until you are thirsty to drink more fluids.
ā¢ Avoid alcohol and foods/liquids that contain high amounts of sugar or salt.
ā¢ Learn the symptoms of heat-related illness.
Take the proper steps to ensure you are ready for extreme heat. Be prepared.
Healthy parenting for child safety
Submitted by Towanda Jackson, CNIC N9 New Parent Support Analyst
This yearās Child Abuse Prevention Month campaign theme
is āIt Only Takes a Minute.ā It serves as a reminder that
children can sustain -- and have sustained -- serious and
fatal injuries in the blink of an eye. According to the Centers
for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the leading causes
of child injuries at home are drowning, falls, fires and poison-
ing. Injuries are preventable. Parents and child caregivers
must exercise caution and take steps to prevent a childās exposure to environmental hazards. We
should also take heed to the wisdom of VADM William French: āThe same mix of ingredients that
can lead to great memories can often lead to significant injury. Recognizing and managing risk is
paramount.ā Among the most insidious (but certainly not the only risk) is heat.ā
Below are few steps parents and child caregivers should take to prevent child injuries:
Learn more on how to keep your children safe by contacting the New Parent Support Home
Visitation Program representative at your installationās Fleet and Family Support Center (FFSC).
To find the closest FFSC in your community, go to www.ffsp.navy.mil.
ā¢ Always supervise children when they are
eating, sleeping and playing.
ā¢ Learn how to perform CPR.
ā¢ Buckle children in age- and size-appropriate
car seats, booster seats and seat belts.
ā¢ Keep cords and strings, including those
attached to window blinds, out of your
childās reach.
ā¢ Move all cribs, beds, furniture and toys away
from windows and window cords.
ā¢ Keep small objects such as buttons, beads,
jewelry, pins, nails, marbles, coins, stones and
tacks out of reach and sight.
ā¢ Purchase age-appropriate toys for your child.
ā¢ Do not tie strings or ribbons to a pacifier
or toy.
ā¢ Remove bibs before bedtime or nap time.
ā¢ Put a sleeping baby on his or her back.
ā¢ Use fitted sheets that cover the mattress
snugly.
ā¢ Place your sleeping baby on firm bedding.
ā¢ Keep soft toys out of the sleeping area.
ā¢ Keep your sleeping baby close, but do not
co-sleep.
ā¢ Dress your baby in light clothing to keep him
or her from overheating.
ā¢ Do not allow your baby to sleep with a paci-
fier or bottle.
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Preparing for
Back-To-School without Stress
Submitted by Navy Operational Stress Control Program
Transitioning from fun in the sum-
mer sun to a new, school-focused
schedule can be very stressful. It can
also be an opportunity to make posi-
tive changes to routines and perhaps
avoid last yearās pitfalls.
Here are some tips to help you and
your family navigate the stress of back
to school season:
ā¢ Shop smart. Take advantage of tax free shopping on your local
base or in your community, and stick to the school-supplied lists as
best you can to avoid overspending. You can also search online for
used textbooks and free shipping offers or visit a local dollar store
for smaller items such as pens and pencils.
ā¢ Visit the school. If your childās school hosts an open house, take
advantage of the opportunity not only to see the classrooms and
meet the teachers for yourself, but to familiarize your child with
where they will spend their days.
ā¢ Create a family calendar. Keeping school activities, extracurricu-
lar activities and appointments organized can strain even the best
memory, so consider a family calendar in a common area, such as
the kitchen. Knowing who needs to be where and when will build
confidence, reduce stress and create a greater sense of control and
trust within your family. Make sure you include family time, whether
it is a family movie night or a visit to a local park.
Above all, encourage your children. Your love and support will help
ease any stress they may be experiencing about the new school year.
For more comprehensive tips to navigating back-to-school stress,
read parts one and two of the Strategies for Tackling the Stress of
Back-to-School on the Navyās Operational Stress Control blog.
Perpetrators of sexual
assault: myths vs. facts
Submitted by Nick Dunson
CNIC Sexual Assault Prevention and Response Program Analyst
There are many myths regarding sexual assault. One common
misperception regarding perpetrators of sexual assault is that most
are strangers that look and dress a certain way (i.e., a masked stranger
jumping out of the bushes). Understanding the facts and dispelling
the myths surrounding sexual assault is critical to ensuring safety
and awareness. The truth is that most perpetrators are NOT lurking in
bushes, wearing masks and dark clothing. The fact is that most sexual
assaults are committed by someone the victim knows.
According to Rape Abuse and Incest National Network (RAINN), 73
percent of sexual assaults are perpetrated by a non-stranger. Specifically,
38 percent of rapists are a friend or acquaintance of the victim, while 28
percent are an intimate partner and seven percent are a relative. Sexual
assaults can occur in places where a victim may feel comfortable, such
as their home or in the home of a friend, acquaintance or neighbor.
Although not all sexual assaults are committed by someone a person
knows or in locations listed above, it is important to know the facts and
statistics. Most people do not perpetrate sexual assault at all. There is
a much higher percentage of individuals who can collectively take a
stand against potential acts of sexual assault by being active bystanders
and appropriately intervening.
For more information regarding sexual assault facts and bystander
intervention, please visit the RAINN website https://rainn.org/get-infor-
mation. The Sexual Assault Prevention and Response (SAPR) Program
also provides information and resources on a range of support services
to victims of sexual assault. If you have experienced sexual assault, the
SAPR Program provides services to active duty and adult dependent
victims. For 24/7 confidential support, visit the DOD Safe Helpline
https://www.safehelpline.org or call 877-995-5247.
New coalition forms to serve transitioning vetsā financial needs
Submitted by Fred Davis, CNIC N9 Personal Financial Management Program Analyst
A diverse group of organizations announced the formation of a new
coalition to serve the needs and unique financial challenges military
veterans face when returning to civilian life. The Veterans Financial
Coalition announced its formation with the Association for Financial
Counseling and Planning EducationĀ® (AFCPEĀ®), Consumer Action,
Consumer Federation of America (CFA) and Visa Inc. The coalition has
a shared mission of improving the financial security and well-being
of the nationās growing population
of veterans. Service members have
many consumer protections and
financial support systems available to
them while theyāre in the military, but
once they separate from service, many no longer have access to critical
resources and protections tailored to service members.
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To meet the needs of veterans reentering civilian
life, the Veterans Financial Coalition has set three key
goals:
ā¢ Educate veterans and the community organiza-
tions that serve them.
ā¢ Research and advocate for consumer protections
for veterans.
ā¢ Raise awareness for veteransā financial needs.
The coalition is also launching www.VeteransFi-
nancialCoalition.com to serve as a clearinghouse
of important personal finance resources provided
for veterans. The website will serve as a hub of free
resources, ranging from educational games (see
http://navyfederal.practicalmoneyskills.com/games/)
and guides, consumer protection brochures, training
program information and research.
See the full article: http://www.veteransfinancialcoali-
tion.com/newsroom/press_061614.html.
Working together
improves family strength
SubmittedbyTriciaA.Morzenti,MS,LPC,NCC
N91 Family Advocacy Program Analyst
Collaboration is the key to supporting family members
within the family unit. It is important for every family
member to help others reach their goals and potential.
Families with strong helping bonds tend to resolve their
issues collectively. Each family member is a resource
and presents more options, which increases hope that
individual or collective issues which arise are manageable.
As a team, a family can foster solution development by
identifying the underlying problems, educating on the
available resources, encouraging creative ideas and join-
ing together in devising a realistic plan of action. But that
is not the end of teamwork. As player/coaches, parents/
partners must follow-up and find out if the plan was
successful and help tweak the solution, as appropriate,
for an even better fit. Many times, as plans unfold, other
challenges arise and family collaboration is needed
once again. Families that solve issues together as a team
become closer and stronger.
References
Walsh, F. (2006). Strengthening family resilience
(2nd ed.). New York: Guilford.
Syracuse University to host workshop
for active-duty military August 15-16
Retrieved from http://news.syr.edu
(Syracuse University News, 2014).
The Military Visual Journalism program in the S.I. Newhouse
School of Public Communications will present a two-day
workshop, āManaging Your Digital Arsenal,ā on Friday, Aug.
15, and Saturday, Aug. 16. The workshop on the Syracuse
University campus. The workshop is open to all active duty
military personnel. Follow on Twitter at #MVJ50.
August 15
The workshop will begin with a welcome from Newhouse
Dean Lorraine Branham, followed by opening remarks from
Ray Shepherd, director of Defense Media Activity; and a keynote by Steve Rubel, executive vice
president for global strategy and insights at Edelman New York.
Sessions include:
ā¢ āFrom Still to Multimedia: Making the Transition,ā led by Bruce Strong, chair of multimedia
photography and design (MPD) at Newhouse.
ā¢ āSound Decisions: Making the Most of Your Audio,ā led by Doug Quin, associate professor
of MPD at Newhouse.
ā¢ āFinish First: Mobile Video Reporting Skills,ā led by Simon Perez, assistant professor of
broadcast and digital journalism at Newhouse.
ā¢ āThe Language of Light: Seeing It, Creating It and Using It,ā led by Gregory Heisler, distin-
guished professor of photography at Newhouse.
August 16
The second day will include remarks from internationally acclaimed photographer Joe McNally and
multimedia adventure storyteller Corey Rich.
A screening of The Hornetās Nest will be followed by a discussion with ABC News correspondent
Mike Boettcher.
The day will conclude with a panel discussion featuring uniformed members of the military who
work in communications.
All events will be held in the Joyce Hergenhan Auditorium in Newhouse 3. There is a registration fee.
In addition, a dinner celebrating the Military Visual Journalism programās 50th anniversary will be
held Aug. 16 at 6:30 p.m. in the Hildegarde and J. Myer Schine Student Centerās Goldstein Audito-
rium.
There is a nominal fee.
For more information or to register, see http://newhousemilitary.syr.edu/managing-your-digital-
arsenal or contact Nancy Austin at njaustin@syr.edu or 315-443-4082.
5. Returning Warrior Workshops (RWW)
Returning Warrior Workshop Schedule and IA Family Events ā www.ia.navy.mil.
Click āResourcesā then āIA Services.ā
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Employment and Transition Corner
What is Capstone?
Capstone is the mandatory, final part of Transition GPS and is completed not later than 90 days
prior to the Service memberās expected date of separation AND after they have completed pre-
separation counseling, attended the five-day TGPS workshop, and any (or all) of the career track
workshops. During Capstone, a Sailorās commanding officer (or designee) will check the memberās
Individual Transition Plan (ITP) and DD Form 2958 (Individual Transition Plan Checklist) to verify they
have met Career Readiness Standards (CRS) and have a workable transition plan.
If the commanding officer (or designee) believe that the Service member has not met CRS and/or
requires additional assistance to successfully transition to the civilian sector, they will arrange for a
āwarm handoverā connecting the Service member with an appropriate DOD partner agency that
can provide benefits, services and support.
The Service member should bring the following documentation to Capstone:
ā¢ DD Form 2648 or DD Form 2648-1.
ā¢ Individual Transition Plan.
ā¢ Completed 12-month post-separation spending plan.
ā¢ Department of Labor American Job Centers Gold Card.
ā¢ Completed gap analysis activity.
ā¢ Completed job application package or job offer letter.
ā¢ Career interest assessment form, such as the (O*NET Interest Profiler or Kuder Journey).
ā¢ Proof of VA eBenefits registration.
To find out more information, including when Capstone is next offered, contact the local
Fleet and Family Support Center.
NIAM draws attention
to immunization
in August
Retrieved from www.cdc.gov (Centers for
Disease Control and Prevention, 2014).
National Immunization Awareness Month (NIAM),
observed in August each year, provides an oppor-
tunity to highlight the value of immunization across
the lifespan. Activities focus on encouraging all
people to protect their health by being immunized
against infectious diseases. In 2014, the National
Public Health Information Coalition is coordinating
NIAM activities.
New Stars and Stripes
Transition Guides
available
Stars and Stripes has teamed up with the Office of
Secretary of Defense (OSD) Transition to Veterans
Program Office (TVPO) to publish two Transition
Guides this year. Commander, Navy Installations
Command Headquarters (CNIC HQ) encourages all
Fleet and Family Support Center (FFSC) staff to share
these guides with your Service members and their
families. Both Transition Guides provide important
information about the Transition Goals, Plans, Suc-
cess (Transition GPS) curriculum, and post-transition
preparation and resources.
The Spring 2014 edition is now available at military
installations and online at http://www.stripes.com/
special-pubs/transition-guide-1.181425. OSD plans
to ship the second (and larger) Transition Guide to
CONUS and OCONUS Navy installations this summer.