Would YOU hire a 'mistress dispeller'? Chinese women are paying $60,000 for a professional to befriend the 'other woman' and break up their husband's affair

  • Mistress dispellers are becoming increasingly popular in China
  • They specialise in ending married men's affairs with their lovers
  • A mistress dispeller does this by befriending the mistress in question
  • They might then get them a new job or a new lover elsewhere
  • Have you used a mistress dispeller? Email FemailAU@mailonline.com 

What do you do if you find out your husband is having an affair? Confront him? Dump him? Try to forgive?

If you are in China, and have a spare $59,000, you could just hire a 'mistress dispeller'. 

Increasingly popular in China's largest cities such as Shanghai and Guangzhou, mistress dispellers specialise in ending affairs between married men and their extramarital lovers.

Mistress dispellers: There is a rise in women in China who are hired to end affairs between married men and their extramarital lovers (stock picture)

Mistress dispellers: There is a rise in women in China who are hired to end affairs between married men and their extramarital lovers (stock picture)

However, they don't do this by using violence, lawyers or any other ways in which you might expect.

Instead, when a woman discovers her husband is cheating, she can hire a mistress dispeller to subtly infiltrate the mistress's life, become friends with her and win her trust in an attempt to break up the affair.

It's a service that can cost as much as AUD$59,000 (GBP33,000).

Unusual ways: When a woman discovers her husband is cheating, she can hire a mistress dispeller to subtly infiltrate the mistress's life, become friends with her and win her trust in an attempt to break up the affair

Unusual ways: When a woman discovers her husband is cheating, she can hire a mistress dispeller to subtly infiltrate the mistress's life, become friends with her and win her trust in an attempt to break up the affair

Weiqing International Marriage Hospital Emotion Clinic Group is one such mistress-dispelling service.

Set up in 2001 in Shanghai, it now operates in as many as 59 cities, and gets rid of hundreds of mistresses via several basic rules.

Shu Xin, Weiging's director, told the New York Times that first of all their mistress-dispelling company will figure out what kind of mistress they're dealing with (ie, whether she is in it for money, love or sex).

Then, they will 'draw up a plan'.

The mistress dispeller will next start befriending the mistress, either through working out at her gym, moving in nearby, or getting a job with her.

How she goes on to remove the mistress from the woman's husband's life is varied. 

She might find her a new lover, a job in a different city or even persuade her into thinking that the married man she is with isn't worth her attentions.

A mistress dispeller will not be violent or get intimately involved with the mistress they are concerned with.  

Growing business: Mistress dispelling is especially popular in China, but it looks set to spread around the world

Growing business: Mistress dispelling is especially popular in China, but it looks set to spread around the world

Frenemies: A mistress dispeller will befriend a mistress, either through working out at her gym, moving in nearby, or getting a job with her 

Frenemies: A mistress dispeller will befriend a mistress, either through working out at her gym, moving in nearby, or getting a job with her 

Countless other Chinese sites also offer mistress-dispelling or similar services.

The Reunion Company claims to specialise in 'emotional manipulation expert hands to help you quickly recover love', according to a translation of its website.

Meanwhile, Baihe Emotion Clinic in Beijing, also offers mistress dispelling services among other things. 

With plans to expand into other countries including Europe and North America, it might not be long before such businesses come to our shores.

It's certainly one way to do marriage counselling.

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