Understanding the Birth Parent’s Experience
Adoption involves not only the adopted child and the adoptive parents but also the birth mother and father that made the decision to place their child for adoption. It is tempting for some adoptive parents to push birth parents to the back of their minds once the adoption is finalized, but they will always be our children’s first mom and first dad, and our children will likely not push them to the back of their minds. All adoption triad members need to learn from one another and be respectful of one another. One of the best ways to “get to know” each other is to start reading blogs written by first mothers (and fathers), adopted people, and adoptive parents.