Stop worrying: All of us tend to worry about our vaginas a lot more while receiving oral sex. Worries about, if he’s noticed that you haven’t shaved, or how your vagina looks, or how it smells to him, start plaguing our minds and pulls our focus away from completely enjoying the moment. The truth is, he doesn’t care. He never has, and spending your time worrying about it is only keeping you away from the orgasm he is trying to give you.
Be verbal: He is not going to know if he’s doing something right unless you tell him. Make sure that you affirm an action that feels good, and tell him when you want him to stop doing something. Don’t get all instructive on him though, as it might result in the act becoming, nothing short of a test. Keep it simple, and keep him informed.
Masturbate in front of him: Nobody knows what works best for you better than you. Give him a show before he goes down on you to show him what you like. This way, he gets all the information he needs before the act itself, thus preparing him to do a good job in the bedroom.
Don’t trap his neck between your legs: You need to give him room to breathe and move around while receiving oral sex. There is no way that your legs being trapped like a vice around his neck is going to help your common final goal. Relax your body; that’s the best way to achieve that orgasm you’re hoping for.
Communicate your concerns: The first thing to remember for a healthy sex life is that communication is very important. If he wasn’t good at it the first time, that does not mean you are condemned to unsatisfactory oral sex for as long as you’re with him. Tell him where he went wrong and what you didn’t like. This way, he knows what he needs to work on, and going through this conversation regardless of how awkward it is, will only make you feel closer to one another.