The Bachelorette comes back on Monday night, and most Americans are generally in one of two camps. You either can’t wait for 9 p.m., or there’s nothing anyone could do or say to convince you to give two hours of your life over to this circus of love.

But there is another group — a select few of you who aren’t sure whether the show is worth your time. And because we care about you here at For The Win and want to make sure you’re living your best life, here’s a flowchart to help you make this very, very, very, very important decision.

Please note: If you do decide to watch, be sure to check back here for a weekly round-up of “How did Aaron Rodgers’ brother do on this week’s episode of The Bachelorette?” (because yes, Jordan Rodgers is one of the bachelors) and also head over to USA TODAY Life for stellar recaps. This is going to be fun.