When you hear the word problem,
what comes to your mind and how do you feel? It’s amazing the multiplicity of
problems compared to the scarcity of solution. However, in this unique mix of
problem and solution, problem is the norm, not solution.
But the real issue here is with
the term problem which most people see as negative. As a matter of fact
problems are believed to be negative. Contrary to popular belief problems are
actually positive. Though we see problem as an evil designed to halt us on our
stride to success. In other fields problems are literally the process to
achieving a goal. So when we say, here’s the problem. We are literally saying,
here’s the progress plan or platform to progress. But that’s not where I’m
heading at. I only brought that concept to illustrate the amazing power people
have to make negative out of normal. Because how we see a thing, what we
believe about it affects how we act towards it or react to it. Such false
representations and interpretations could actually deprive you of the advantage
you stand to gain in the face of great opportunity in disguise of problems. To
correct these false impressions, here are some points to consider.
- When you see problem think
solution. You begin to flounder when you think one without the other. We
actually call it worry. The truth is,
there’s no problem without a solution, it’s like light and darkness. You can’t
know one without the other (at least here on earth). The real problem as I see
it is that we focus too much on the problem.
- Think you can, believe only in
possibility. If only what you believe is possibility, then you leave no room
and time in your creative mind impossible thoughts to be nurtured. There are
two kinds of people, those who encounter problems and are discouraged and those
who are turned on when they meet challenges. Yes most things are difficult but
you must rid yourself of that negative power of turning difficult situations
into impossible ones. Don’t coil in when you hear impossible rather come to
life.
- Associate more with people who
think solution when they hear problem. We are influenced by the relationships
we keep and the books we read. Associate more with people who come to life at
every difficulty and less with those who die by it.
On becoming a solution, I have
one word for you which encapsulate the whole matter. Nobody is better positioned
or more qualified to solve a problem than the one who discovered it (at least in
the beginning). Most people identify problems and begin to promote it. You
don’t solve a problem by focusing on it nor do you by generating attention to
it. If you do, you increase the problem. The reason is because you then attract
more people into the problem. Is that not right you ask? Well no, guess what
most people are willing to readily share, their problems. So what do you do?
When you identify a problem, take good note of it and forget it. Yes, just
forget it (in the literal sense).
Now begin to focus on the
solution. Such that you only think and talk of the solution. When you
eventually get people involved, you are not inviting them into the problem, you
are now involving them in the solution. Isn’t that interesting? It’s important
how people get into the matter than the fact that they are just in it. For
instance you have some nice looking, well dressed persons in your parlor and
someone begins to point out who came in through the window, and who came
through the door. Wouldn’t you begin to doubt their presence and appearance?
So you want to get people into
the matter from the angle of its solution not the problem. Here are some steps
that could help.
- Understand that you are the seed
of the solution to a problem you identify
- Never neglect a problem no matter
how little until you assign a solution to it by writing and then document it
please.
- It takes higher thought and
effort to solve a problem than it took to create it.
- Ideas are key to creative problem
solving. Never neglect one no matter how silly or little it seems.
- Share the solution not the
problem, you must have come up with something near the solution at least before
you even take the identification out. That way you prove that you are committed
to a solution.
There are problems everywhere and
that’s absolutely normal, it’s not going to change. But this is far from the
last to be said on this subject.
“If you are not part of the solution, then you
are part of the problem”. - Anonymous
