A Wallet Lost 40 Years Ago Now Is Found

 

Rudolph R. Resta, 77, walked out of a wintry rain recently, through the revolving door of a largely empty Times Square office building, and into his distant past.

He found his two sons, now in their 40s, when they were small enough to fit into the same lawn chair, side by side. He found his wife, Angela, posing before a knife-sharp Pontiac Grand Prix in Prospect Park, looking very sultry in a jaguar stole; “real jaguar,” he said, “not the stuff they have today.” He found a picture of his father, Nicola, that he once worried he would never see again. He found a Social Security card issued by the Federal Security Agency (the office hasn’t existed since 1953) and an American Express card so old that it wasn’t green, it was purple and white. (Member Since 64.)

In fact, Mr. Resta found just about everything with which a well-stocked wallet would have bulged in 1970. Except, of course, the cash he carried on the day he carelessly left the wallet in a jacket pocket in an unattended coat closet on the second floor of The New York Times headquarters at 229 West 43rd Street, where he worked as an art director in the promotion department.

When Mr. Resta went to fetch his jacket at lunchtime on that long-ago day, the wallet was gone. He wasn’t to see it again for 40 years. The reunion was made possible by José Cisneros, 46, a security guard who works in the former Times building, now called the Times Square Building. He came across the wallet last fall when he was investigating a void between an old unused window on the second floor and the masonry seal behind it. The wallet had apparently been stashed there after a thief found it in the coat closet and pulled out the cash.

What about you? Have you ever come across a lost object of obviously high monetary or sentimental value? Were you able to reunite it with its rightful owner? Did you even try? Or have you ever benefited from the kindness of a stranger who turned in, say, a Chinese erhu worth thousands of dollars that you’d left on the curb at 68th and Amsterdam? City Room wants to hear your story.

DESCRIPTIONThe New York Times Rafael Rodriguez and José Cisneros.

Here’s what Mr. Cisneros did. Recognizing that the wallet would surely have value to someone, he turned it over to Rafael Rodriguez, 38, the fire safety director at the Times Square Building. Because the wallet held several pieces of Times-related identification — including Mr. Resta’s membership card in The New York Times Employees’ Blood Bank — the two knew immediately that it had belonged to someone who had once worked in the building. “This is very good,” Mr. Rodriguez recalled saying to Mr. Cisneros. “We could give it back to him or his family. That would be a fantastic satisfaction.”

But how, exactly, does one make such a connection? Mr. Rodriguez tried calling The Times, but was stymied by the message: “To reach a particular department or person directly, press 0, then speak the name when prompted. For all other requests, please select from the following — ”

“To return a stolen wallet to a retired employee, press 9,” was not among the options. (We closed that division years ago as an economy measure.)

Enter — literally — Gordon T. Thompson, formerly the manager of Internet services for The Times. One night, waiting for a movie to begin in a nearby theater, Mr. Thompson wandered into the renovated lobby of the Times Square Building, where he’d spent many years. He explained who he was and asked if he could look at some architectural renderings that were on display.

Mr. Rodriguez happened to be on duty at the security desk and seized his opportunity. He showed the wallet to Mr. Thompson. Mr. Thompson called this reporter, who’s something of a Times historian. This reporter called Mr. Resta, who retired in 1999 but still lives in New York. Mr. Resta, laying aside his understandable suspicions, agreed to meet all of us at 229 West 43rd Street, share some memories and get his wallet back.

DESCRIPTIONThe New York Times Mr. Cisneros shows the cavity in which he found the wallet.

When Mr. Cisneros handed the wallet to him, Mr. Resta opened it gingerly and turned away for a moment, overcome by the tide of memory. After composing himself, he gave Mr. Cisneros a grateful kiss. And he didn’t lose a moment showing off the glamor-puss shot of Mrs. Resta from 1963. “She still is glamorous,” he said, with evident pride and pleasure.

Before coming into Manhattan on the morning of our meeting in November, Mr. Resta told his wife that he knew he’d find a clipping in the wallet from 1968 — Senator Edward M. Kennedy’s eulogy for his brother, Senator Robert F. Kennedy. Mr. Resta can still recite the phrase that meant so much to him: “Some men see things as they are and say why. I dream things that never were and say why not.”

The clipping was indeed in the wallet, as were pictures of two boys squirming in a lawn chair and gamboling on the lawn at their old home on Avenue J in Brooklyn. Christopher is now 47 and deals in stock options. Paul, 42, repairs and sells bicycles. He has two children of his own. Both Christopher and Paul live in Belle Harbor, Queens, not far from where their parents now live.

Nicola Resta, the very picture of Old World probity, has been dead 45 years. He came to the United States from Bernalda, in southern Italy, where he knew Francis Ford Coppola’s father. The elder Mr. Resta transferred his skills as a cabinetmaker to an industrial setting, becoming a pattern-maker for the Sperry Gyroscope Company. “My father always said, ‘Stick with a company,’ ” Mr. Resta recalled, which certainly turns out to be sensible advice if you’re going to lose your wallet for 40 years.

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40-Year Reunion

A former New York Times employee receives his lost wallet, found some 40 years later. Inside, he finds photos and documents from his past.

By Nadia Sussman|Tony Cenicola|David Dunlap on Publish Date February 20, 2011.

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In the early 1980s we purchased a house in Portland, Oregon. While cleaning out the attic, I found a high-school yearbook (Los Angeles) from the 1920s or 1930s, which I assumed belonged to a former owner. Several years later, while inspecting some renovations (by sticking my head out a second-floor window), I was asked by passers-by if this was my house, and if that window was new (it was). They explained that they had grown up in the house in the 1950s. We invited them in, and they marveled that the 1940s wallpaper in a coat closet had survived; they remembered playing hide and seek in that closet. When I learned their names, I fetched the yearbook, which was their father’s. They were overjoyed, and later that day a nice bunch of fresh flowers appeared on our front porch.

wonderful story!

Amazing story — thanks for sharing.

Yeah, stick with a company and lose most–or all–of your pension (and maybe benefits) after working there your entire career.

Thank you Republicans.

I did not lose anything but I found two hat very beautiful silver pins when I removed the wooden mantel from the brick fireplace in 1979.

The building was constructed in Cleveland Heights around 1913. The year of construction was consistent with the style of the pins. Were they lost in the teens or some later decade, we have no way of knowing. We speculated the inhabitants of the house put their hats on the mantel and the pins slipped off and fell into the tiny crack between the brick and the wood mantel.

We wondered if someone was blamed for the lost pins. Was there a maid fired? With over 66 possible years since the pins may have been lost we did not know where to even begin an investigation to find the rightful owner. We accepted them as gifts for taking good care of the house that was fairly dilapidated by the time we bought.

This is a wonderful story that reminds us of the kindness we all possess. Seventeen years ago I dropped my wallet in Grand Central Station rushing to the Garden to see a Knick’s game. I realized the wallet was missing when I arrived at the Garden, and figured I would never see it again (photos and credit cards). Later that evening, while I was walking to my train, I heard someone calling my name. A kind gentleman had found my wallet several hours earlier, called a phone number located in the wallet, and discovered that planned to catch a late train home. He returned to the station to meet me with the full wallet. This action gave me a little hope for humanity.

It’s Belle Harbor.

Lovely story. Now if only they can find the thief. . . .

What a lovely story. Bravo, Mr. Cisneros.

That is a very nice story; muchas gracias a Senores Cisneros y Rodriguez y Thompson y Dunlap !

What a wonderful story! So many elements in it filled me with emotion, not least Mr. Resta’s thankful response to Mr. Cisneros; his proud comments about the photo of his then young wife; his joy at once again having the photo of his late father; and his recitation of the Kennedy quote. A capsule of an earlier time, now opened; a missing piece of a man’s life now returned to him.

You asked for interesting incidents of lost things being found and restored to their owner. I have one for you involving my mom (still living) and a marriage certificate stolen from a purse at a wedding reception during WW II, and by a very strange set of circumstances eventually restored to its owner. But how do I contact you? No e-mail address that I could find. Email me for details. :) Jim

i think that even a wallet that was lost 40 years ago still has gold in it even if the cash is gone, The memories left behind 40 years in the past that is the gold, Atleast the thief 40 years ago left everything intact on the wallet except the cash. The owner is very happy now to get it back.

A few years ago, I found a wallet containing $2,000 cash in a men’s room at a Fort Lauderdale condo complex. I tracked down the owner and returned his wallet (as would most people, I suspect)); all that cash was Xmas bonuses for his employees. Karmic epilogue: a few months later, I helped judge a writing contest as a favor to a colleague (I work at a book publisher). A month or so after that, I was rather surprised to receive a check for $2,000 — nobody had told me that the judges got an “honorarium” for their efforts.

Twenty-five years ago I was at the Thorn Tree, a popular restaurant & outdoor meeting spot in downtown Nairobi, Kenya. I noticed a personal diary on a shelf at the informal bulletin board built around the huge thorn tree growing in the center of the grounds amongst the tables (obviously, before Facebook.) In tiny script, there were months of entries about someone’s travels around Africa, his adventures with his girlfriend.It was obviously an important book to the owner and could hardly have been deliberately lost.

There was no owner’s name but there were several friends’ addresses, mostly in England. I took the diary home to New York and wrote to a few of them.

Instantly, the owner of the owner wrote back. His room in a small Nairobi hotel had been burglarized and this was a precious record of his memories.

After I mailed the diary back, my reward was his letter stating that I’d be “a friend for life.”

P.S. I haven’t heard from him since. But it’s a precious memory for me.

What a great story about a great bunch of New Yorkers! Let’s read more of the same; it’s quite a relief from the other dreadful news that dominates the headlines.

Thank you, this is a fabulous story!

Things like this happen all the time in NYC. I had my wallet picked in Macys in 1978. In 1995 I got a call from someone at Macys saying they’d found my wallet. I’d moved three times since the thievery so how they found my phone number I have no idea.

I went to Macy’s Customer Service and they gave me the wallet. It had everything in it, except for the money. I hadn’t bothered to replace my Social Security card so that was there, too. The wallet had been found behind and old display.

I can only live in hope that some kind soul will find my wallet, left under the mattress of the top bunk of the troop and assistant troop commander’s room for that coach on the troop-train that left the RR marshalling yards at Fort Leonard Wood in May of 1958, en-route to the Brooklyn Navy Yard for our debarkation to Germany.

I remembered my wallet after I was aboard the troop-ship, and there was no way that I was going to be allowed to disembark, or that anyone could contact the troop-train that would be heading back to Fort Wood.

I just gave up the wallet as lost.

Yet, I have read things over the years similar to events like this fellow being reunited with his wallet after 40 years, and I have not given up hope that I might yet be reunited with my long-lost wallet.

Mr. Resta is blessed.

Thanks for this happy-ending story.

PS His wife must now stare at that photo of herself and dream of when, as many of us now do, and all will do so in future.

David Chowes, New York City February 20, 2011 · 3:15 pm

When I was about 20 (now 68) I wrote a weekly column for a local newspaper (circulation: about 10,000). I didn’t know what happened to these newspapers which I’m sure I saved — or at least my pieces — nor, did I search for them.

About one year ago, I picked up a book from my about 2,000 book library and… Lo and behold!…

I found one of the columns which was written almost 50 years ago — and, you know what? It was so similar to the style and content which I continue to use.

FYI: I have since misplaced this document. Go figure?

My wife once lost a $7K [25yrs ago] diamond and sapphire bracelet in the parking lot of a public building. After an ad ran, it was returned intact by a cleaning lady who refused a reward. When I told the insurance company, they couldn’t believe it. I think they thought I was committing insurance fraud and had thought better of it.

My wife and I were on an island hopper from St. Johns to Puerto Rico. After taking our seats I felt something poking me in the backside. I stood up to find a womans clutch purse half sticking out between the cushion and seat back. We opened it to find it belonged to a woman from California. It contained numerous credit cards , ID, and approximately 3500.00 dollars in cash. We returned it to the flight attendant who said they had a report of a lost purse. We always wondered if it ever made its way back to her. This is just one of numerous occasions I have had in my life to returned not insignificant amounts of money to their owners. Always makes for interesting conversation when the subject comes up. Thank you, Rick Viergutz

Yet another Sunday wading the accumulated litter of the ATM vestibule at Independence Bank, Court and Atlantic in Brooklyn and I’m scooping, crumpling, huffing my disregard at slobs who REQUEST receipts only to abandon them to the floor piles. Something dense in the last handful: Deposit envelope with 19 Twenties.

“Hello, I found something valuable in your (slovenly) vestibule, yesterday. When the owner comes looking for it, here’s my contact info.”
“What is it?”
“Of value. That’s all you need to know.”
“Well, bring it in and we’ll hold it for the owner.”
“Since I want to make sure it actually gets to said owner, no, I will hold it. Thank you.”

The better part of a week and a very relieved woman tells me of several days’ frustrations getting Customer Service to do what I’d asked. “I’d taken out four hundred dollars for my vacation, put twenty in my wallet, and thought I’d slipped the envelope with the remainder into my purse. I found out later I’d missed and it had hit the floor.”

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The Fifty likely dropped by the mom juggling shopping bags and stroller paused beneath my shoe until I got her attention and asked if she was missing something. She ID’d the missing item immediately.

There were others, some easier to return, some harder.

But the yearning, handwritten note in the holiday card from the father to the son, the hopes for rapprochement, the cash included by way of making up for some fatherly failing, all enveloped by snow and damp paper on a Flushing corner curb, Christmas Day 2009, was never claimed despite my Craigslist notice. Identify yourself, Son, and I have something belonging to you.

There were thieves in NYT .. shocking, shocking ..

30 years ago, I once left my wallet at the counter of car-rental company in LA .. my wallet showed up in mail about 90 days later with everything except about $500 cash :-((

Dave, what an interesting little story – thanks for telling it!